Self-harm is an intentional act of self-poisoning or self-injury and is an expression of emotional distress.
Though it’s not a mental illness itself, self-harm is linked to emotional distress and is a coping strategy. You may be finding it difficult to cope with your emotions and feel like hurting yourself is a way of punishing yourself or relieving emotional distress.
However, this is unlikely to have disappeared and self-harm can make you feel worse. It also carries serious physical risks and can be potentially fatal.
There are many reasons people may self-harm, including social problems and psychological trauma.
If you’re worried that a friend or relative may be self-harming, there are a number of signs you can keep an eye out for. These include:
- Unexplained cuts or bruises, usually on the wrists, arms, thighs or chest
- Keeping themselves covered at all times, no matter what the weather
- Common depression symptoms including low mood and a lack of motivation
- Becoming very withdrawn
- Blaming themselves and having low self-esteem
It’s important you or the person you’re worried about seeks help as people who self-harm can cause serious harm to themselves.
You can check out our advice for talking to a friend if you're worried about how they're feeling.
If you’re in a mental health crisis and need urgent help, call the Single Point of Access on (01472) 256256 and select option 3. They are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Alternatively, you can call NHS 111 free from a landline or mobile phone.
You should speak to your GP if you’re self-harming. They will be able to signpost you to the most appropriate support, which may be a referral to our community mental health team. If that is the case, you will undergo an assessment from a member of the team and they will provide a care plan to help you, which may include seeing a therapist and learning healthy coping strategies.
You could also consider speaking about your feelings with someone you trust, such as a family member or close friend.
If you’d rather text than talk on the phone, you can text ORANGE to 85258 to contact a trained volunteer from Shout. They’ll be able to help you reach a place of calm and, if necessary, signpost you to local services. This is a free, 24/7 service.
It might be necessary to use medication if you are depressed. You may be prescribed antidepressants such as SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors). You can see a list of medicines we might offer you on our Choice and Medication portal.
Safespace provides instant support if you’re vulnerable and need assistance with you mental health out-of-hours. You can speak to the team using Zoom or by calling in via telephone, between 6pm and 10pm, Monday to Friday.
Rethink Mental Illness: Rethink have prepared a comprehensive factsheet that answers a wide range of questions on self-harm.
Orcha Apps Library: This library lists thousands of NHS-approved health apps by condition, making it quick and easy for you to find support.
No Harm Done: A project that aims to show young people struggling with self-harm that things can and do get better.
Samaritans: If you’re thinking about self-harming, Samaritans have provided information and signposting.
Self-Injury Support: Self-Injury Support offer support to both adult and young women, who are more likely to self-harm.
NICE: You can find more information about self-harm on the National institute for Health and Care Excellence website.
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